How do you know if you are a bisexual vs. a closeted gay?

I am a fashionably dressed (Prada,Gucci, etc.) well educated professional handsome chiseled man who travels to Paris every year, loves Cher and techno, and am single in my late 30s
I had a serious relationship with a man I loved when I felt I was gay in my 20s, however have been dating women in asexual relationships ever since as family members encouraged me to be straight
I suspect I may be bisexual

Nepthys2018-11-22T20:56:44Z

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You had a serious relationship with a man you loved when you were in your 20's. You've been having asexual relationships with women because your family thinks it better you were straight.
How in the world can you think you're bisexual? You're so far in the closet you can look over your shoulder and see Narnia

Anonymous2018-11-23T02:23:38Z

Well I dont have sex with other men and I dont spend time in the closet.

Anonymous2018-11-23T02:05:25Z

Simple definitions: 1) never let anyone else label you, only you can label yourself. 2) a straight person is only sexually and romantically attracted to the opposite sex. 3) a gay person is only sexually and romantically attracted to the same sex. 4) bisexual people are sexually and romantically attracted to either sex, though may show preference to one sex over the other.

Chris2018-11-22T07:51:14Z

When it's the right time

Anonymous2018-11-22T06:59:00Z

Most gays outgrow it. Gayness is usually done to rebel against parents or to get a victim card

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