Why do smart men fall for lying women who just use them?

I dumped my former friend after she told me she is manipulating and using a needy guy she met into marrying her. And no she's not hot. All the while here I am, a sincere woman who actually wants love and sex, but Im alone and lonely. I give up.

Katzen2019-02-17T02:47:51Z

Just being sincere and kind is not enough. You need to be interesting if you want to attract a romantic partner. This applies to both genders.