Is this considered a broken hymen? Will the gyno think i am not a virgin?

My mom wants to take me to the gyno to “confirm that i’m a virgin” & while i was under the impression that this virginity test wasn’t a real thing i realize that the gyno could just check to see if my hymen is still intact. & i can still see my hymen when i look, but i have used tampons before and i’ve fingered myself before so there are like 2 small holes in my hymen. What would a gyno think when seeing that? bc i dont want her to think that i am not infact a virgin.

alan P2019-09-06T09:16:08Z

I find it hard to imagine that any responsible gynocologist would give an opinion on whether a girl is a virgin by looking at her vulva. Why would your mother think of such a thing? Is she setting you up for an arranged marriage?

LadyMerton2019-09-05T19:26:14Z

there is NO medical test for virginity

the Hymen is NOT a virginity proof

Every Doctor would Know that


Fact time

https://www.scarleteen.com/article/bodies/my_corona_the_anatomy_formerly_known_as_the_hymen_the_myths_that_surround_it



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA

?2019-09-05T19:07:49Z

I guess you can, that is what I am hearing here. None the less I am not having a pap smear until after I have had sex.

hillbilly2019-09-05T04:02:26Z

Tell the gyno about your use of tampons, she must know this is often the cause of broken hymens. At least, I think so, but I'm a guy. However, my wife was a virgin (her parents were strict), and her's was broken before we married, so........

Ross2019-09-05T03:47:11Z

She can't force you to do that regardless. Tell her you don't a stranger looking at your vagina. It's none of her business.

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