River Euphrates
My wife and have enjoyed mutual anal play for years - but it came about naturally, in the heat of passion, instead of one of us saying 'hey, do this!'
If you are uncomfortable with it, tell him so.
Anonymous
You do not have to be gay or bi to enjoy it, Many straight people enjoy anal sex.
reme_1
Just tell him you are not comfortable with touching his *** at this time.
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Tell him, it gives you no pleasure.
Anonymous
Some straight men like an.al play. They want you to stick your finger in their hole while you blow them, or some even like to be pegged - when their girl friend uses a strap on with them. And also many bi men are not in to an.al play. In fact many fully gay men don’t like an.al play either! So please stop linking an.al play to same sex attraction.
What this comes down to is being sexually compatible or not. If he needs an.al play to be sexually fulfilled and you are just not in to that - the two of you need to decide if costs and benefits of staying together. If you won’t do this for him - he has to decide if your good qualities outweigh him not getting this. If he needs this - if you did it for him once in a while - what would he do for you to express his gratitude? What would you want? Or if him having this desire is a deal breaker for you - maybe you just need to walk away early on. Ball is in your court - you have some thinking to do.