i have a boyfriend i think he's bi he's a nice guy but he wants me to touch his A** sometimes(the hole not the cheeks) how do i stop this?

My wife and have enjoyed mutual anal play for years - but it came about naturally, in the heat of passion, instead of one of us saying 'hey, do this!'

If you are uncomfortable with it, tell him so.

You do not have to be gay or bi to enjoy it, Many straight people enjoy anal sex.

Just tell him you are not comfortable with touching his *** at this time.

Tell him, it gives you no pleasure.

Sounds like he might be into pegging. Many straight guys are into anal play, doesn't make them gay or bi, not in the least.

Shower with him and make sure it's squeaky clean. Then when you are fooling around, give it a little diddle. It can feel good for straight guys, too.

Some straight men like an.al play. They want you to stick your finger in their hole while you blow them, or some even like to be pegged - when their girl friend uses a strap on with them. And also many bi men are not in to an.al play. In fact many fully gay men don’t like an.al play either! So please stop linking an.al play to same sex attraction.

What this comes down to is being sexually compatible or not. If he needs an.al play to be sexually fulfilled and you are just not in to that - the two of you need to decide if costs and benefits of staying together. If you won’t do this for him - he has to decide if your good qualities outweigh him not getting this. If he needs this - if you did it for him once in a while - what would he do for you to express his gratitude? What would you want? Or if him having this desire is a deal breaker for you - maybe you just need to walk away early on. Ball is in your court - you have some thinking to do.

Stay away. 

Or at least Pray to GOD on this.  

What you have asked just gives me the creeps.