Is it wrong to look for baby given away at birth when they turn 18?

A distant cousin gave birth to a girl in 2006, in 4 years time she plans to actively look for her daughter when they turn 18. Is it wrong to still miss her & reach out when she becomes an adult.

Ana2020-11-11T09:48:16Z

No why would it be bad? Just don’t expect the kid to automatically return the feelings 

Donnie Porko2020-11-11T05:47:32Z

Yes. Maybe her daughter doesn’t want to meet her. Or maybe the adopted parents don’t want their daughter to meet her biological mother. 

If I were adopted, I sure wouldn’t want to meet my biological mother.