How can I stop thinking about someone?

So I like this girl, she’s my best friend and I can’t stop thinking about us being together. But the problem is, she has a boyfriend. They seem so happy together and I want her to be happy. But I just can’t stop thinking about us being together. I don’t want to be a home wrecker because I know that would completely ruin our relationship, and once again, she’s happy with him. How can I get her out of my mind?

Anonymous2020-11-27T03:16:58Z

Start avoiding her.  If she asks you why, tell her.  Or just tell her up front about your feelings and say it's too difficult for you to continue as just friends.  She may surprise you and break up with her boyfriend to be with you.  And you are not a "homewrecker" if they aren't married.