What happened exactly?

She once liked me alot years ago and chased but I couldn't let her in my life at the time. Many years later she's a single mother and reaches out to me via a dating site telling me she always had my face and name at the back of her mind and that she liked me alot except the shyness, she again seemed to like me alot, the first date was at her place and I went for the kiss and she accepted, after the date we texted and she joked that she would have liked a more 'bold move' and 'talkative' version of me, anyway we carried on speaking days later, I had to cancel another evening around her place because I needed to do some chores, we carried on speaking but she cancelled rescheduled dates and slowed texts does, she messaged saying sorry and told me that she has depression spells sometimes where she needs to shut off. Days later she ghosted me, a week later I informed her a family member of mine died and she unghosted me, telling me her 'head wasn't into dating anyone at the moment', she a month later after I left her alone messaged me out of the blue. But then again she didn't initiate contact with me afterwards. 

I made a fake online account and messaged her, and she told this 'fake hunk account' that she was lonely, and even asked for its number. So clearly she may have been open to dating after all. 

Was I lied too?
What went wrong?
How does she view me now?
What should I do?

Foofa2020-12-20T15:29:59Z

Once you've gotten pregnant and given birth you no longer get to pretend to be a "shy" virginal UwU character. You think you're faking on her when in fact she's faking on you to. This is a flaky person so you probably don't need to be too apologetic for being flaky back to her. 

Glass2020-12-19T15:06:05Z

-You weren't lied to. She told you upfront that she lost interest in dating you and was moving on.

-You kept cancelling dates, she assumed you lost interest. If you would flake on her to do chores, she is right.

-She views you as someone who wasted her time.

-You should stop being a creep and leave her alone.

myfavouritelucy2020-12-19T14:56:11Z

17 questions..... all the same. Your first question says you had a date but you blew her off to ''fix a cupboard''...... there's your first clue to what happened. You sound weird and you've played games, and guess what? So has she. You both sound immature and lonely. She's moved on.  Plus, A LOT is two words... no such word as 'alot'. 

ihavqs22020-12-19T14:35:58Z

Johns:   Don’t waste your time with this woman who likes to play games.  

Anonymous2020-12-19T14:09:22Z

"Gold Digger", looking for a meal  ticket.
Pass.