What happened exactly?

She once liked me alot years ago and chased but I couldn't let her in my life at the time. Many years later she's a single mother and reaches out to me via a dating site telling me she always had my face and name at the back of her mind and that she liked me alot except the shyness, she again seemed to like me alot, the first date was at her place and I went for the kiss and she accepted, after the date we texted and she joked that she would have liked a more 'bold move' and 'talkative' version of me, anyway we carried on speaking days later, I had to cancel another evening around her place because I needed to do some chores, we carried on speaking but she cancelled rescheduled dates and slowed texts does, she messaged saying sorry and told me that she has depression spells sometimes where she needs to shut off. Days later she ghosted me, a week later I informed her a family member of mine died and she unghosted me, telling me her 'head wasn't into dating anyone at the moment', she a month later after I left her alone messaged me out of the blue. But then again she didn't initiate contact with me afterwards. 

I made a fake online account and messaged her, and she told this 'fake hunk account' that she was lonely, and even asked for its number. So clearly she may have been open to dating after all. 

Was I lied too?

What went wrong?

How does she view me now?

What should I do?