Is my boyfriend cheating on me if we haven’t had sex in over a month?

He works 13 hours??!?! Maybe he;s just too tired for anything else.

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I don't see why you don't want to lose him when you know he's cheating.  Stop cooking and cleaning for him.  Have him hire help with all that money he makes working long hours if what he says is true.  I don't care how handsome he may be a cheater is a cheater no excuses about what other women will do.  Good Luck and God Bless.

I think you should ask him why he wont have sex with you. I honestly doubt he's cheating on you because he's at work basically all day. I would consider having a little chat with him.

Something's up for sure.  Have you asked him straight out why he wont have sex with you? Has he found someone else> Is he struggling with his sexuality? These are things the two of you need to discuss.

Are you sure he doesn't have an S.T.D and wants to NOT give it to you or if he does have one wondering whether or not you gave it to him it could also be something else so add this to the list if you really want an answer and he is illusive when asked find different ways to get the answers but it makes it nice to have the list of possibilities...

N.Shadows

When does he have time to cheat?

If he has never done anything to betray your trust before then it is unlikely that he would start now. What he is going through could be due to performance anxiety. The best way to overcome this is to start of with the basics and just play with each others bits... if you don't know the best techniques, watch some adult DVDs or get some self-help books for tips on how to have the most fun.

Get him to give you oral so he can really get to know your body. Importantly, he has to understand that he can probably give you orgasms with tongue/fingers etc without even being hard inside you. He probably has the fixed (and ignorant) guy myth in his mind that it's his performance inside you that is the sole thing that gives you orgasms. This is of course nonsense - he just has a lot to learn about girls' bits... be patient - teach him and discuss it frankly. Once you've played around like this on several occasions, he'll be more relaxed about the whole thing.Another helpful hint is to say things to boost his confidence. Remember, guys like to be made to feel that they are doing a good job pleasing their girlfriends and intimacy is all about confidence. Hence, if you can compliment him then it will go along was towards make him better at sex. Good luck, have fun :)

maybe he has ED and doesn't want to admit it. 

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