Girls: Can you help me?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for the past 3 years. She is the love of my life, and we have both talked about marriage. Her parents are not in good health and she has been taking care of them. I have had opportunities to advance my career in other places, but I have stayed here to be with her. It has been my decision and I made it the way I wanted. Well, she asked for a break the other day, and I asked if it would irritate her if I wanted to talk to her sometime. This is what she wrote:
“Babe, you’re not going to bug me by messaging me or wanting to talk. I’m not being rude. If you want to text me or talk to me, please do 💗 I love you more than you will ever know. I need to figure myself out, that’s all.”
Today, she posted a selfie on Facebook. She had gotten her hair dyed black (she is blonde) and had gotten her doubles pierced on her ears. She tagged her best friend in it and said “sometimes you just need to live life on the wild side to make everything better 💗”
Do you think she is done with me? Should I break all contact with her?