Meeting Women?

For context - I am F(34) 

I am on POF looking for FEMALES. I have no problem liking people, hearting people, but to send a message....... I dont know what to say! 

Im new to the women scene. Previously dated men.

 What do girls want to talk about with other girls that they are looking to date?

Men always wanted to talk sex.. is that what girls want to?! HELP!! 

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