Is the third date too soon to give oral sex? ?

Last night i went home for the first time with a guy i had gone on three dates with (last night being the third). I gave him oral after a few drinks at his place, but that was it. we did not have actual sex. was it too soon for this?? i usually wait longer, but i really like him. Will he look at me any differently or will he not care to get to know me now?? I am 20 if it matters and he's a bit older than me.

2021-04-07T17:30:20Z

I never said he would fall in love with me for the head... i asked if it was too early and if it can ruin things between us.

Anonymous2021-04-10T18:51:24Z

Oral sex is actual sex. You’re an idiot, if not a troll.

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Anonymous2021-04-10T14:19:07Z

NOPE
To each their own but personally I wouldn't say it's too soon at all.

Because whether they admit it or not people typically date by the "Three" rule anyway..

When sex isn't forthcoming or at least discussed as a possibility by the conclusion of the 'third' date
then it no-less typically reduces the odds of a Fourth one.

And
these days,
many if not most don't take 'Oral' much more seriously than a type of heavy petting or just part of the fourplay. .

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michael2021-04-10T12:31:40Z

What kind of person only gives oral sex, why not just do the entire thing.

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kristy2021-04-09T08:53:16Z

There’s no rule on how many dates you have for sex.

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Anonymous2021-04-08T15:53:02Z

If it turned you doing it, then that's all that matters, it turns me on going down on a girl. Don't think about it too much just get on with it, life's too short.

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