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Why do the girls i like always date my friends?

My group of friends are some of the smartest, coolest, best looking peeps i know(that's why we're buds, we understand each other :) Every time i meet a girl that i'm "into", and she starts to meet/hang out with me+my clique, she always ends up with one of my peeps. What am i doing wrong? Or should i just hang out with a lesser quality of people so that i stand out more?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    i think u need at first show her that u feel to her something and then be like you dont care about her. try to show u from the best side, but not 2 much, becouse she can start thinking that u thinking u r everything. dont really show ur feelings. if she is gonna start dating on ur friend again, just act like u even dont know her.

  • 2 decades ago

    Ever think of telling your 'peeps' that you like the girl, and asking them to back off... at least give you a chance to get to know each other before they move in on her?

    Might just be that they're more forward than you, perhaps the girls aren't noticing you much because you're the quiet nice guy who isn't coming on to them first.

  • 2 decades ago

    Hang out with your girl without your friends and don't let your friends find out about her.Or after a few days ask her 2 B your girlfriend.Then she will B taken and your friends won't B aloud 2 date her.

  • 2 decades ago

    Cause ur guy friends love to make u jealous and cause u didnt make a move on the girls ( oh and i'm so attracted to guys whop arent afraid to show there opinion) most girls are

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    ok u need 2 tell ur friends to back off, then when u stay with her talk abt urself, and try 2 spend sometimes alone away from ur friends give her the chance to see who u really are.

  • 2 decades ago

    try to find the answer in you, where you are going wrong. R you giving her time, emotional touch etc.?

    try to understand the girl first, her like and dislikes, then they are all yours for 24 hours long.

  • 2 decades ago

    first stop talking about your friends with her , second , wake up man just be your self , third women like men who care about themselves .

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