My fiancee has pepper like hair color is it rude if i asked him to get it colored hes only 42?

I think it all depends on how you phrase it. Try telling him you think it would be sexy if he dyed his hair and see how receptive he is to it. Several years ago when I was still in my mid-20's my hair started to go gray and a friend suggested dying it. I was a little shocked at first, but after dying it I found a new wave of confidence about my looks and the way I was treated. Today I am very thankful to that friend for recommending it to me :-)

A few things to be careful about though, men tend to pick hair dies that are too dark, it is better to go with a medium brown than a dark one... and I find it best if I dye my hair immediately after getting a haircut, this way people just think I got a really good haircut. Most people don't even realize I dye my hair... which I do about once every six weeks.

Hope this helps.

Yes. First off. Men dont like to be told what do by women. Its the inferiority complex thing. Depends on what kind of man you have though. Its like telling him you want him to look like someone else. Would you like it he asked you to dye your hair blonde or red? If he is suceptible to a little constructive criticism then go ahead and ask.

It's not neccesarily rude, but he's not gonna be comfortable with it, I assure you. How would you like it if he said "You know what, you're pretty fat around the thighs, and that's fine with me if it's fine with you, but how about you work out a bit?" And that's not even the same, because if you were fat than it would be only your fault, whilst he's not the fault for his hair color.

I don't think salt & pepper looks as bad on a man as it does on a woman. What looks REAL bad is black Grecian Formula hair and eyebrows! Offer to dye it for him (I mean, not with Grecian!)

askk yourself, how would you feel if he asked you to lose some weight or dye your hair to suit his tastes better? Love him as he is and you can reasonably expect the same from him. If he is happy with himself, don't start changing him. You may not like him when your done.

if it bothers you may suggest it to see his reaction.but be cute about it.

If it bothers you let him know. If he wants to change it to please you, fine. I think asking him to change it would be inappropriate.