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My bf is perfect n i love him, problem is my best friend seems to say negative stuff , u thk shes jealous?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    What is your bestfriend saying? Basically, I think you need to tell her to back off and leave her negativity at home. Is she jealous? Well, that's a difficult thing to say with so little information. If her negativity is constant, than maybe she is, or maybe she misses all the time the two of you used to spend together. It's difficult when one friend has a special guy in their life and not the other...you can't even double date. Be compassionate because roles could be switched in the future when she has a special guy and you don't. When you and your friend spend time together, do NOT spend all of your time gushing over your boyfriend. Ask your friend questions, listen to her....make her feel like she is still your best friend.

  • 2 decades ago

    That's great that you have a trusting relationship, but the thing with your best friend she thinks she is losing you. She thinks that you will stop spending time with her and spend it all on him. Let your best friend know that you two will always be great friends and no one could replace that. And have some girls night out sometimes. That will make her feel better.

    There could also be another reason she is acting this way. Sit down and talk with her, ask her whats up. It could be that she is going through something hard in her life are there could also be that chance that she sees something bad in your boyfriend and she is trying to protect you. Talk to your friend about it, trust me you need to hear what she has to say.

  • 2 decades ago

    Let me tell you from experience. DONT EVER LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT A BOYFRIEND, OR GIRLFRIEND FOR THAT MATTER! It is your life and you are the one who is going to be with the person that you are with, so dont worry about anyone else's opinion but your own. You know what is best for you and only you know this!

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    your friends are meant to be there to protect you, so maybe she is a little jealous or maybe she sees something in him that you dont cause your in love with him...either way, aslong as you are both happy then who cares what other people think..tell them to keep there mouth shut, cause you might end up pushing them away.

    Source(s): life experience
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  • 2 decades ago

    yeah, thats obvious!

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