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If you believe that you met your true soul mate....how do you make yourself move on when they leave?
I met someone and we were so happy together. We had the same thoughts, dreams and goals for our lifes. We were truely in love. He left me because he wants to be a father to his child with another woman that he doesn't love. He feels he wants to do the right thing for his child by trying to give it a stable family life with a mother and father. I know that we are supposed to be together and deep down I know that he does too. He will not contact me anymore and moved away without telling me where. I am really trying to move on, but I find it very difficult to because I feel that things will change one day or whats the point because I don't think I would ever meet anyone like him. I am 27 so it is not like I have not dated or had relationships before. I just never found anything like him before. I am just hopelessly in love. Please help me.
By the way...we have been apart for about 5 months. I still feel the same about him.
5 Answers
- 2 decades agoFavorite Answer
Oh honey, I am truly sorry for what you're going through. I really wish I had some good advice, but I dont think I do.
All I can say is if it was meant to be then it will happen. Maybe not today or tomorrow or even in 5 yrs but it will.....if it was truly meant.
In the meantime, please be strong, take care of yourself (very, very good care) do things that make you happy and surround yourself with loved ones.
Your feelings will never go away, Im sure, but time does help to heal. Give yourself time and stay focused. You will be OK.
I do hope he comes back to you... a soulmate is a hard thing to lose. I will say a prayer.
Peace to you.
- 2 decades ago
Sweetie as much as it hurts you have to get over him. I know it is easier said than done but if he were really your soul mate wouldn't you think that he would still be with you? He would find a way to work out the other stuff and if he was really your soul mate he would not just up and move not leaving you a forwarding anything. You are a great girl that does not need to be crapped on!! Just get a bunch of girlfriends together and get dressed up and go out and enjoy yourself and let your girlfriends hep you through this, right now you need there support....
- 2 decades ago
Honey, believe me......you will not despair for more than a few days. What cannot be will never be. Move on and find more guys who deserve you more than this nerd who masqueraded as your soul mate. Unfotunately, I am a good 45 years old male, else I would have offered myself as an alternative. But the market is still open for 27 years old guys who'll make you forget guys who sired kids with women they did not love.
- rkrellLv 72 decades ago
I know this has to be hard but he did what he felt was right. I once met a woman who had kids and we seemed perfect but she felt there were things she had to do for her kids so she couldn't be with me. It hurt but I had to learn to respect her choice and move on. It took time but I was able to slowly get my life back move on because I believed that I deserved to be happy. I'm now married to a wonderful woman so I have faith that eventually you will find someone else and be happy too.
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- 2 decades ago
If you really do love him then you will let him go. Try to fill you time with things that take your mind off of him. you really do need to let go of this one and move on. I spent 7 months of my life with a girl thinking she was the one. It is now 2 yrs later and I am soooooo glad that I moved on. It took me a while but I pressed on and made it.
