what do you do when your husband will not leave you alone after you have seprated .?

When you say seperated, I hope you mean divorced. If not then there is your first step. (The only reason I mention this is because I know of two women that say they are "seperated" but they are not divorced) If you are divorced then get a restraining order on him, because if he is still around after you've told him to stay away AND you are divorced, then he has turned into an "unstable dude" and he is now stalking you. Be Careful and don't let this problem get any worse TAKE CARE OF IT NOW! Good Luck

It depends on what he is doing. Have you spoken to a lawyer? Do you need to get a restraining order? Is there someone close to both of you that sould speak to him and convey your wishes that he leave you alone? It sounds like he is not accepting the separation well. Perhaps counseling would help both of you.

Good luck.

Tell him that you need space and if he just wants to make things worste, then just tell him keep on what he's doing, or you can get a restraining order on him. I'm only 15, but thats what i would do, if I was a girl anyway..

File a restraining order.

Honestly, if he is harassing you and you are asking him nicely to stop speaking to you or attempting to contact you, file a restraining order. Contact your lawyer (or if you don't have one, get one), and this should solve the problem.

Get a court order.

restraining order

Lie to him about everything, especially anything that involves new relations.