Relationship issue: How can you help me to find many ways to keep my Fiance to stay interested in me?

When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting and sweet smile!

Tasty meals, clean house.

Wear attractive clothes.

Joke and play games with your husband -

A mans secret: they seek women who are light-hearted and have a sense of humour.

Thank your husband for the nice things he does.

An argument is a fire in the house. When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will end when you just say sincerely, "Look, I'm sorry. Let's be friends."

Listen and try understanding him!

Try to think of what a best friend means and be one to your spouse. This may mean sharing interests, experiences, dreams, failures and upsets.

Encouragement, praise, and gratitude should be expressed on a regular basis, which will strengthen these qualities and be beneficial in developing others. An attempt should be made to overlook or ignore negative characteristics.

It is not enough to share meals, chores and small talk together. Spouses should also find time to focus on strengthening the relationship. Often couples get busy with their own separate tasks and forget about working on one of the most important elements in life. Quality time may be anything from having a quiet, profound conversation to going for a nice long nature walk, to sharing a special hobby or project.

Expess feelings often.

Never Bring up Mistakes of the Past

Surprise Each Other at Times :)

Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire. Of course, house fires do not occur very frequently; yelling should occur at about the same rate.

Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled. This is one of the worst things that can happen in a marriage and should be avoided as much as possible. This allows hurt feelings and thoughts to linger and generally exacerbates the problem.

My husband works long hours and works hard everyday as well. So my suggestions would be...give him a foot massage when he gets home, give him a back massage, make him his favorite dinner, let him pick what to watch every now and then. Go to strip clubs together and be interested in what he's interested in. At least once a week write him a note and sneak it into his wallet where he'd see it when he was at work that says how much you love him and can't wait for him to get home, take a naughty pic and put it in his wallet, email him little love notes just telling him you're thinking of him or call him and just say I'm thinking of you and I love you! Even when you've been together 10 to 15 years or whatever you can still act like two love sick puppies and if you stay interested in what he wants to do and he stays interested in what you want to do it should be fun!!

My best guess would be not to try so hard. If you do, at best your efforts will be seen as commonplace, and at worst it could be interpreted as smothering.

I try to tell my wife that I love her at least once a day. I tell her, and I mean it, and she knows it. A simple gesture like that should go a long way.

Having said that, I do try to do something simple and nice periodically for her, and she does for me too. Nothing too big, but not too often - your life together should be its own reward.

Showering together is just fun, and it's environmental too.

lebanese guy in da flesh :P

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