What's the best way to tell your "very catholic" parents that you have a steady and serious GAY relationship?

Tough one. My first (gay) boyfriend was, and is, a serious and observant Roman Catholic; I went to Mass with him once and he goes every week. So the two things are not totally incompatible. I'm middle aged though so I didn't have parents to deal with.

I'd suggest contacting PFLAG for support and advice.

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it depends on where you are in your life right now. i am catholic, and i WAS gay (lesbian) back in the days, and i hid it from my parents for the longest time. when they found out, my mum went crazy and threw me out of the house. i eventually realized that i prefer men to my fellow chickas, but based on my experience, i would suggest you hide it as best as you can UNTIL or UNLESS you are at an age wherein you can properly defend yourself, and if necessary, support yourself.

Tell them that you're an actor and the you wanna star in Brokeback Mountain 2.

Ummm.... probably by saying "Im gay" that'd be best way. Much better than saying "I like to be with men" If they dont understand, well....Dont Be Gay, Sparky. why make things so complicated? They are gonna find out....gosh! tell them.

Go to their house for Christmas, and start making out in front of them under the Mistletoe.

Everyone will say to just sit them down and tell them. That is a very good thing to do! But i would do it in a public place so that they cant yell at you....

I was going to write something very profound, I'm sure, but I'm still snickering over "angryman"'s brokeback mountain 2 comment. very clever.

be yourself. take them to a little chat in the dining room and tell them. "mom,dad, i know it could sound a little strange and all,but i'm dating men..." something like that.

do it when you're ready.

Just tell them, dont expect them to understand, let them know that you love them and give them the time to digest it.