my husband doesn't like to french kiss..how can i change his mind??

My wife doesn't either. It simply isn't something she likes and I respect that as her choice and I don't try to change that. Yes, I miss the french kissing, but I love her and it is of minor importance compared to the rest of our relationship. In other words you aren't going to change him and it is a waste of your time and possibly damaging to your relationship to try to change him.

If he doesn't like to French kiss, he probably hasn't had a good french kiss or he doesn't know how. The Art of Kissing DVD by Michael Caine is a great way to learn, and it has lots of other kinds of kisses.

You can't, accept him for how he is. but in the same time he should be willing to try something new because he loves you and if you are going to be with this man for the rest of your life it is time for him to let go of those things that he won't do!! or he might walk in on you french kissing someone else!!

give him a brain? Are you sure he's straight? No seriously, that has to stink! All I can think is to just talk to him. Find out why he doesn't like to do it, maybe it's something you can help him overcome. Good luck!!!

If you wait until you are financially stable you will never have a baby...people have been saying things like that forever, and yet babies still happen...people make it work, that aside, your husband sounds like many men...and honestly he should be fine once it happens, considering that you have been having sex without bc for all this time, it shouldnt be a surprise if it happens, and hun pulling out is NOT birth control, Per-seminal fluid has more concentrated sperm so it is more likely to get pregnant off of that anyways...But the two of you need to sit down and have a big talking out...you need to tell him exactly how you feel, and go from there...he is scared like most men, and thats ok but you need to let him know your position on the subject and let him know that you understand his feelings, and want to make sure he understands yours. Good Luck to you.

Well it very well could be possible that he is claustrophobic or something like that. I myself cannot French Kiss, because it feels like my air ways are being restricted and I feel like I can't breathe. Maybe this is the case with your hubby.

I am not sure you can. If he doesn't like it, he just doesn't like it.

I wouldn't take it personal.

I used to have a boyfriend like this, I used to just surprise him with the most sensual kiss when I wanted one. Eventually he would just kiss me. I mean I did let him know I like kissing and would tell him I wanted to taste him and stuff like that, kissing became a good thing with us after that.

You can't really make somebody change their mind about something they feel uncomfortable with.

Tell him it's a "freedom kiss."