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Relationship question to ponder.Im here to help my friend out from her 7 yr relation and her future plans w/bf

My friend called me last week and was unhappy about her situation with her boyfriend that she loves. I dont know which is the best answer that she needs to be aware of. I know that they have a very healthy relationship for 7 years.She didnt have the money to fly to see him from other states. He lives in the west and she lives in the east coasts. For 7 years, she never met his family, but talked to his sister a few times. Her boyfriend always tells her how much he loves her and wants to be with her for future plans. She thought that it was her true love in every happiness. on that night, he was pretty horny and he wants her to go to hawaii together to be away from everyone just to spend time together in bed only. She likes the idea but she knew that she wants to get marry first then have sex was the right thing to do.She wanted to meet his family first he said next time. She was sad and worry that he may not wanted to marry her after sex. he said we will still get marry& do not worry

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    if she's waited this long then wait! if he wants to marry you (her) he will...on your (her) terms.

    he can afford to take her to hawaii for sex, but not bring her to meet the family? something doesn't sound quite right.

    she needs to tell him if all he wants is booty then buy it. she's not cheap; and he can't use his money to string her along. meet family; marry; then sex.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    She lives in one state and he lives in yet another state. He purely tells her what he needs her to appreciate. Has already had problems with this guy or woman. i do no longer think of he will marry her. and that i additionally think of he has somebody else. sounds like each and every he needs her for is intercourse. And in simple terms useing her. tell her to locate somebody else. There are adult men who be there beside her in the comparable state , city , in spite of .

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