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Relationship question to ponder.Im here to help my friend out from her 7 yr relation and her future plans w/bf
My friend called me last week and was unhappy about her situation with her boyfriend that she loves. I dont know which is the best answer that she needs to be aware of. I know that they have a very healthy relationship for 7 years.She didnt have the money to fly to see him from other states. He lives in the west and she lives in the east coasts. For 7 years, she never met his family, but talked to his sister a few times. Her boyfriend always tells her how much he loves her and wants to be with her for future plans. She thought that it was her true love in every happiness. on that night, he was pretty horny and he wants her to go to hawaii together to be away from everyone just to spend time together in bed only. She likes the idea but she knew that she wants to get marry first then have sex was the right thing to do.She wanted to meet his family first he said next time. She was sad and worry that he may not wanted to marry her after sex. he said we will still get marry& do not worry
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- 2 decades agoFavorite Answer
She should evaluate their relationship....what really is important for him? Why after seven years ans telling her he wants to marry wouldn't he want her to meet his parents? What does he has to hide? is he hiding something? All in all she should value herself...a man that really loves a woman will not push her to do something she is not sure to do...he will respect her decisions and believes and if she does not wants to have sex before marriage...which I think is something very important for her...he should respect that decision...
- 2 decades ago
Well the first thing is, helping a friend in a relationship has good and bad consequence, she could either hate or like the advice you give and if she follows it and then breaks up with him due to the fact she never met family....but on the other hand you have many situations she could get into if she went to Hawaii with him, she could get pregnant, he could leave her, lots could happen, best advice for this, is let her follow her own heart, just be there to catch her whether good or bad....
