I want to be totally self-confident, what is the easiest way ?

I think by not worrying about what other people will think of you. Be secure in who you are, and don't try to become what others want you to become.

100% self-confidence would require you to kid yourself. There will always be novel situations you encounter that will make you question you ability or if you made the best decision. The fist step would be to recognize that its okay to have moments of questioning your abilities. You can only become more confident (and competent) if you are willing to learn from your short-comings.

Believe in yourself! I know it's easy to say, but don't let things you don't succeed (sp?) at set you back. Keep on trying - don't give up on yourself!

Pick an activity you like, work hard and get good at it.

have alot of sex and a girl that treats u right and dont lie to u

you're already on the right path by asking this question.

trust your emotions and the strengths that they each have

just belive in your self ;)