How could a women get even with a man that is using her, and if he isn't how could she found out if he is?

well, if u dont know for sure...do some research. check numbers laying around or in his cell, "wrong number" calls, or people hanging up when u answer...ect...

if u know for sure...super glue his penis to his belly button :D lol

If she thinks she is being used now, chances are she is. Getting even might not be a good idea as it can backfire on her face. Confronting him is her best move. Ask nicely and talk in a non-threatening tone and a lot of things can be discussed and questions will be answered.

By being happy and having your confidence stay high!

I think there will be clues,like his saying strange

things to you,or not keeping his stories straight,ect....

If you have to ask,that may not be a good sign.

I hope this helps.

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