How do i get passed this?!!?

Sweetheart, don't say ANYTHING about your feelings for your guyfriend. If you've been together for two years, there is something between you two too, whether you want to see it or not.

There is every possibility that you want your guy friend for two reasons.

1) He's a bad boy. And even though you are doing the right thing in staying away from him, the draw to him is nearly irresistable, am I right?

2) He's a good friend. You probably know everything about him, right? I went through this stage where I wanted to date my best guy friend too. But I think it was mostly because I wanted to see just how deep the relationship could go.

My advice? Be there for your guyfriend in the FRIEND capacity. If he's a drug addict, he doesn't need the added conflict of dating a friend. He obviously has more problems going on in his life that need attention more.

Spend more time with your bf. Like, quality time. Get away for a weekend together. Get to know him on a deeper level, and maybe, someday, you won't lust after your guyfriend.

Good luck

well im guessing that guy number one got off the drugs??? and if thats the case then you don't have a problem leave the poor scmuck that your with and go be with the non druggie guy. If the guy is still on drugs how could you possibly still have feelings for him? remind yourself how lucky you are to have what you got, and make the best out of it.

stop talking to, spending time with, or even associating w/ the drug addict. Get him out of your life completely & move on. If he cares more about his need for drugs than you, clearly he is not worth your time. Addiction is extremely difficult to over come, but he has chosen not seek help. He has chosen not to be rehabilitated. He has chosen drugs over you. Love is selfless; if someone truly loves you they are willing to sacrifice anything for you.

Why does he need to know. Nothing will ever come of it with your friend...he's a druggy and that's not what you want. Be careful you don't mess things up with the new guy.

He's a druggy and it will end bad no matter what. Get out and find someone who doesnt need drugs to hide his insecurites.

Stay true to the one you're with, but you do need to tell him, if he's the one for you he'll be there to help you through.

felling usually don't go away, you have to decide what you want to do about the feelings---there will be consequences with any decision