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be honest about this?

Update:

i'm asking here because i'm looking for an honest answer, and because each time i ask a girl out i get turned down, its like 6 out of 6 attempts to ask a girl out, which i was sure they atleast showed a mild interest in me

Update 2:

@vamp7814: actually the only thing i fear is that i will die alone, and its a great fear for me...

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Not ugly .

    Beautiful eyes and looks like a pleasant disposition.

    Keep asking girls out. The right one has not come around yet. Go to places that have activities and interests that you like. You might find someone there too.

    You are young and have time. But I do understand about being lonely, it sucks. You can be grateful that you have not had your heart broken several times over. That sucks even more.

    For what what its worth, if I where single, I would say yes.

  • 2 decades ago

    When I was a little girl and asked my mother if I was pretty, she would say I was fishing for a compliment.

    To answer your questing, no you are not ugly at all. I agree with some of the others that longer hair would look good. Not long. Just longer.

    The problem is, most of us think we are less attractive than we are. We are our own worst enemy. What's really more important is how interesting are we? Good looks may attract some initial attention, but a warm smile, intelligence and a sense of humor will ultimately win out over looks. After the intial passion wears off, you want someone who is interesting, can carry on an intelligent convesation and can laugh at himself/herself. Beauty fades. Personality doesn't.

  • 2 decades ago

    You probably got turned down for reasons beyond your looks. Take a look in the mirror, not at your face or body, but at yourself. Are there things that you can begin working on in yourself right now? What factors can you improve? I'm not saying to pick yourself apart, that will only make things worse. Just be objective about what makes a good boyfriend. Or maybe you are just asking out the wrong type of girls! Also- the guys I have found most sexy were confident, not necessarily attractive. Maybe you just need to love yourself. Cliche, I know, but it's something that seeps out of pores and lights up a face.

  • Lanani
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    No, in all honesty, you are not ugly. You're not a Tom Cruise or a Tyson Beckford... (But then again, I don't find Tom Cruise to be particularly attractive!)

    I like the whole "unshaven" thing.. it's a good look for you. Remember, NO ONE fits the mold of perfect Hollywood beauty or attractiveness.

    And Miss D is right... confidence is key. Confidence is sexy. If I meet a man who KNOWS that he has something to offer a woman, and KNOWS that he's a great guy, that's incredibly attractive. (Don't confuse this with *********... that's a whole different story)

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  • 2 decades ago

    There is nothing wrong with your looks. Maybe you are getting turned down because you lack confidence, try knowing in your mind that a girl is gonna say yes to a date before you even ask her. Girls can sense fear in a man and it is a huge turn off.

  • 2 decades ago

    i am not going to judge you on how you look because well i am a guy. i will say i looked through some of your post and your request and i think you are single because of attitude. I am not the best looking guy but by your age i had had like three or four girls. I am 300 pounds now and i still get girls who flirt with me even though i am married. Even in high school when i was like 230. Most girls did not like me but i became their friends and let my personality make me attractive to them. So get some self confidence and plus you are still young you will find someone.

  • 2 decades ago

    Kinda.....mountainish....is that even a word.....well it is the first thing that came to mind. UMmm, rugged like a farmer or woodcutter.

    But on a better note, let the hair grow and you would be Hot!

    On a different note, why do you feel the need to ask people you don't know about your looks? Kinda a sissy question isn't it?

  • Miss D
    Lv 7
    2 decades ago

    You're an average looking guy. I don't think you're ugly at all. Many guys that are less good looking than you get girls every day. It's not about that. You need to have confidence in yourself. Other people just saying you look good isn't going to help anything at all.

  • omg!!!ur soooooooo not ugly,yea u have the whole caveman look goin on wiv that facial hair but ur a totally cutie if u shave dat hair off ur face,maybe even have a soul patch goin on n longer hair i'd totally say holler cutie.btw i might b sayin like abou da facial hair n stuff but really ur perfectly fine the way u r,no need 2 change ur look but dat facial hair is so taking away frm ur looks.kiss kiss~*

  • 2 decades ago

    you're definitely not ugly!!

    i can say that you're 7 out of 10

    maybe you've been asking the wrong girl

    look is not important, what's inside your heart is important

    just be patient, and the right sweet girl will come to you

    good luck =)

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