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How do you get the guy that loves you to ask you to marry him?
We've been together less than a year. He doesn't like to to talk about his feelings, and I hate being the one to initiate things. I just want some way of getting him to hurry up a little, life is too short.
He's definately ready, he just has trouble starting things. He thinks everything is gonna happen on it's own.
9 Answers
- 2 decades agoFavorite Answer
First, in a subtle manner find out if he's ready for that at the moment and if you both are financially ready as well. Then, on a Friday night drug him up so he's very sleepy (make sure he's in bed), and once he's asleep tie him to it. Then, decorate the room with a bunch of fancy, romantic junk, banners, etc, cover the windows with dark curtains, and go to bed. Wake up on Saturday morning before he does, light some candles, play sexy music, and wake him up. Sit on his stomach and present him with an engagement band and ask him to marry you. Once accepted, you can have a jolly bondage time. If he refuses, well then, you have him tied down so you can take your revenge on him as you wish. ^_^
(Perhaps if you do this you won't have to initiate anything ever again because this could maybe make him too nervous and he'll ask you not to initiate things. It's a win-win situation!)
- Anonymous2 decades ago
How? You dont have to know coz only time will tell. The guy loves you right? So just be patient and I'm sure he will ask you. Maybe he is just waiting for the right time and the right momment. Dont think about it by now...just enjoy the time you spend with each other. Never hurry in getting married because all things have its right time to be done. K! Maybe he is planning something by now. <(^_^)>
- Anonymous2 decades ago
You don't. You don't need to be married. Be happy just being together. Not being married these days does NOT mean there's any less commitment. Look at how many marriages fail. Some relationships last longer than marriages! And if he asks you someday, it'll just be a wonderful little extra.
- 2 decades ago
Bring it up, so he knows your ready, and than be patient, because he may not be ready!! Just wait a little while than bring it up again with out being pushy!! or making it to obvious!! Good Luck
- 2 decades ago
You should just ask him. It doesnt matter whether the guy or girl ask, it all ends up the same way.
- 2 decades ago
i really dont know the answer to that one because i have been with my man now for eight years and i am still not even engaged, get that!
- RomeoLv 52 decades ago
Why do not you ask him to marry you? Are not we live in the age of equality?!!
- Anonymous2 decades ago
just talk about it with him. or if you are too impatient, ask him yourself. Times are changing-its not too weird for the woman to ask anymore!
- captures_sunsetsLv 72 decades ago
plan a romantic getaway together and while on the trip...ask him to marry you.