is there a truly 1 happy family???

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i dunno if i shud do this but i guess i'm at a total loss. my mum n dad havent been spoken to each other for like couple of months now. it's killing me and my siblings actually. sumtimes i wonder why bother living under one roof together if none of 'em seems like dont wanna work things out between them? not dat i ask for it but it's so annoying. Even tho my big bro, sis n me live outside d house, i do pity for my lil sis. she has a big examination comin up n u can see how stressfull she is. I talked to them before bout this but nothing's worked out. so ya...basically i'm floating in d middle of nowhere. thnx n i really appreciate u guys

ataimadi · Accepted Answer

You and your siblings must support your little sister as much as you can. If the situation at home is really bad for her, see if there is a relative she can live with. Phone her often and spend time with her if you can. Make sure she gets to talk about what is going on and how she feels. Tell her what worked for you when you were at home. Be encouraging. If it might make a difference talk to your parents separately about the effect of their behavior on your little sister. See if one or both will go into counseling. Suggest family counseling where the three of them will sit down with a therapist. This would be best. Do the best you can and make sure your little sister always has someone to call if she feels really bad.

letitbeyou1 · Answer

I would talk with your parents and tell them that the way they are acting is very hard on your sister and they could at least act like they like each other until your sisters examination is over. They are her  parents no matter what they feel about each other right now and should act like it. Get them both together and tell them how you feel. Or if possible let her go stay with you until the examination is over. Do what you can to help her.

Anonymous · Answer

hmmm... tough one.

it depends on how you perceive happiness.

i should say if you are comfortable or contented with what's going on inside your house and/or within your family and the other members feel the same way as you, then i should say you belong to a truly happy family.

problems are inevitable. everyone experiences it. it's a part of life. every family has their own set of problems but as long as you keep together and help each other, everything will be alright. 

remember, two heads are better than one, what more if there's 3 or 4 or 5?

sorrells316 · Answer

family not only is mom and dad, when kids are in the mix, bros. and sis. should stick together no matter what, i miss mine, parents divorced, gave me away, haven't seen bros.,sis. this is not up and up.

tjamesmomof4 · Answer

I have 4 kids and a hubby and i am very happy a marriage takes work and it is hard

Darrell R. · Answer

no there is not my mom and dad are divorced and still live together with my sister and three kids the all truly are unhappy

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