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Complicated guy friend question...?

One of my closest guy friends recently asked this girl out, even though a week before that he flirted with me shamelessly and touched my arm and hugged me a lot. He then went alost a week without speaking to me, but now today after I didn't pay attention to either of them he was later IM'ing me and he sounded really insecure about this girl, asking me if I thought she was nice or whatnot, if I liked her, and saying how I was like his best friend and we should hang out more. He also told me everything like how he asked the girl out and she said meybe, then told me right away once she said yes and such... All day he I had caught him looking at me way more than usual though. I've REALLY liked this guy for almost a year now, and I was wondering what might be going on here, because I seriously have no clue weather he likes me or the chick hes going out with... Anybody might be able to decode this dude for me...?

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  • 2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    ah, men...... when we women like/love someone for that long, any type of body language or gestures he makes can seem like it's a sign the he likes you. i fell for my best friend last year and it took me a year to get over it after he got a GF. he still doesn't know till this day. i think that your friend really values your friendship, but i wouldn't say that there is much more to it. however, some men can have the perfect woman in font of him and not see her. you are probably really hott and intelligent, maybe what he is looking for in a wife, and is therefore subconsciously overlooking you because he is not ready to give up is his fun with the scandalous ones! tell him how you feel, it's much better for your emotional health

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    till you're actual particular that they are no longer mutually do no longer attempt some thing with him. And if I were you, i ought to nevertheless wait a at the same time as, because this guy and his lady friend will be dealing with some heavy emotional stuff. Janet will probable resent you for pouncing on him (rapidly, or in any respect) -- that's going to seem insensitive, and also you opt to be careful in case you opt to nevertheless be friends mutually with her. From what you've written, i am going to't tell that he has any more beneficial than a platonic pastime in you. no longer that i change into there, even if it type of appears like he had to purely be with a buddy, seeing as he's not any longer feeling too large. await clearer alerts from him. Then, i wager, act in accordance to what you imagine is surprising. you've your human being thoughts to judge... yet then you actually ought to reason some topics between the three of you.

  • 2 decades ago

    He probably likes you but is afraid you don't like him back. If you are brave enough to tell him upfront "I like you" then go for it, if not just send him little signals. About the other girl, if he is still showing signs of liking you (like watching you alot) he probably wants to see your reaction to all of this. If he asks you something or talks about this girl...act a bit (not over the top) jelous so he gets the point!

  • cortni
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    maybe he really likes u as a friend thats y he's askin u this stuff or he does like u but he's too shy or embarrassed so he goes for some other girl. if he ever breaks up with this chick tell him how u really feel bout him....

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  • lilith
    Lv 7
    2 decades ago

    I THINK HE LIKES YOU. telling you some girl said maybe, telling you that, you and him should hang out more. Ask him, just make him admit it. Don't Be Shy, Get Your Answer !

    Source(s): you have to go, to the cow, for the milk!
  • 2 decades ago

    First of all calm down....Well i this you ignore him some how or tell him that you are not intrested in him i know it might be hard for you but i think hes not right for you

  • 2 decades ago

    REALITY CHECK! HES SURELY NOT THE ONE FOR U.Plz try to move on to other guys. hes bound to cause more harm.So try steadily to move on and remember:THERE R LOTS OF OTHER FISHES IN THE POND. GOOD LUCK!!

  • 2 decades ago

    it 's a matter ur goin to have to deal with he wants to go out he'll break up with his gf and go out with u unless he's unsure of ur answer if he did

    Source(s): been there done that
  • first he does not deserve to be your best friend, an accuntance may be , other he is selfish.

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