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I'm 37 and dating a 20 year woman, does age matter?

Is she mature enough to have a serious relationship or is she just passing time because she is attractive to me.

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    POP YOUR COLLAR PIMP, KEEP IT UP.

  • 2 decades ago

    Age will never matter as long as you get not too overwhelmed by the thought of it. So what if the girl is 20 and you're 37. Ever heard of a certain study that girls mature faster than guys? Probably she's 20 but her maturity is already in your level of maturity... Or it can be that you are 37 and yet your maturity is like that of a teenager. Either way, just get together with her more often and you'll surely know if the two of you can get along well given the age. If it bothers the two of you, then time to let go.

  • 2 decades ago

    I think that once you get so old, that age should not really be such a huge factor, but when you are so young, you shouldn't be dating someone who is old enough to be your parent or grandparent, you know. I think that 20 and 37 is okay, as long as the person is mature to handle the relationship from an adult's perspective, then it's ok. I think that love and happiness should be what matters the most. Plus, most females are attracted to older guys regardless of their age. I mean, it is just something so intriguing that lures you to older guys than even dating guys your own age. So she probably just likes you for you, and that's what should matter the most.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    At age 20 I doubt she is thinking serious relationship,and honestly I do not understand a 37 yr old guy wanting a 20 yr old but whatever works for ya.

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  • 2 decades ago

    I was 19, he was 30, and it didn't work for me. From the time i was 23 to about 25 things went downhill, i was becoming an adult and my way of thinking was changing, but he was already what he was going to be. We ended up not liking eachother as time went on. We were serious for about 7 years. I think you need accept the fact that she's still growing up. I thought i was mature and knew what i was getting into, I was very wrong. I'm 30 now.

    Source(s): just my opinion. . hope it helps
  • 2 decades ago

    Well, If she hangs on there will probably be times you wish she was older and wiser, and of course you may find that she does eventually move on.

    The younger you are, the more that age difference matters, but, at your age and hers, you are your own boss. Odds are against it working out, but it might, you just don't know.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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  • 2 decades ago

    Not at all. I'm 30 and I was involved with a 47 year old man. And it had nothing to do with a father figure or crap like that. I really loved him as a person.

  • 2 decades ago

    I hope you mean attracted.:) I think it could work, no one could tell you if she is mature enough unless they knew her. It isn't a huge age difference. Look at her everyday actions, is she mature in those? If so, don't worry!

  • 2 decades ago

    Todays world age doesnt matter but dont fall in deep love her easily take some time..

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Well let's see. I'm 21 and my dad is 38. You're old enough to be her dad. She may just be using you. My dad's friend (same age) married someone my age, she is just using him. But every situation is different. You may just be perfect for each other!

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