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Why do guys say I LOVE YOU but still cheat on you whats the point of this??

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    2 decades ago
    Favorite Answer

    i am girl but let me ans it...because us girls like to hear that and if they dont say this then they know they wont be getting anything out of us so thats why the lie and when they see a better behind then ours they would repeat the same words to her so they can have her,and trust me it works with most of the girls.guys dont care if us girls get hurt long as they get what they want.but there are some nice ones out there aswell.

  • 2 decades ago

    guys that say that are dirt bag assholes..and this happens quite a bit. in all honesty i am a guy to so first impression is to think that of me but no it is not always the case. but to answer your question they do that because if they say they love you, u will put out.. then they cheat on you for more action

    Source(s): being a guy and having friends that do it
  • 2 decades ago

    he said " I LOVE YOU" to make you think that he never cheat on you. but the truth is he playin a games with someone else, so he played as both sides like double agent. he still with you n get a new girl. if he feels he doesn't need you anymore that he can throw you easily 2 garbage. so he can be with his new girl

  • 2 decades ago

    Men see love differently than women. Your boyfriend may truly love you, but he really doesn't consider it cheating, because he doesn't love the other women. In his mind, it makes perfect sense.

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  • 2 decades ago

    They say 'I love you' so you don't think they're cheating on you, and if you find out they'll use those 3 words as evidence that they couldn't possibly cheat on you. ;)

  • 2 decades ago

    For most men Love is just a word. Its easier to say than show. I always stick with the old addage, "Show me dont tell me". That should narrow the feild down for you.

    Source(s): Im an awesome ladies man. My girfriend tells me so.
  • 2 decades ago

    Two possibilities, either he was trying to keep you happy, or quiet and did not mean it. Or you have learned that just because someone "loves" you, it does not mean that they will do things they way you want them to.

  • 2 decades ago

    not to be mean, but maybe he feels that he settled and that the grass is greener where he went. not your fault. his. you will truely know that he loves you, if when he looks at you and says it. that is all he can say. when asked if he loves you and how does he know, he wont be alble to explaine it, it is just there. to hold and to cherish.

  • Tom H
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    Some guys will say this to all the girls to get in there pants.

  • 2 decades ago

    No one really knows what "I love you" means. They say it just because they think it's what they should say. I only say it when I really mean it.

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