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last minute wedding invite should i go to reception too?
I work graveyard. my supervisor/former co worker is new to his job as all the other members of our dept were transfered to a nearby town. the rest of tour dept is all new hires.
i assumed it was why i hadnt heard much from him in the last month. anyway He called me at midnite because I hadnt left him any notes saying I was coming to his wedding this weekend. Apparently one of the new people didnt pass on the invitation. If he hadnt called I wouldnt have known. he told me the church & time and could I watch over the dept as he was flying cross country to get his mother.then he hung up. the question is after the wedding should i go to the reception. Im not sure.
he proposed on monday and this is sort of an elopement.
thing is I had other plans for saturday
8 Answers
- XenagurlLv 42 decades agoFavorite Answer
Sure if you want to. He invited you properly and called to check why he hadn't heard from you.
Upside: He lied and didn't want to invite and you have free food on his dime.
Downside: The free food isn't all that good.
Enjoy!
- 2 decades ago
I wouldn't go to either the ceremony or the reception. I don't consider a phone call at midnight an actual invitation. It was rude to call you at that hour and rude not to send a written invitation. You're under no obligation to go.
- frodoLv 62 decades ago
You have a good excuse not to go.
But what else would you expect him to do in his situation?
My suggestion would be not to burn any bridges. Enjoy the reception, leave after the cake cutting if you must, but don't make decisions based on spite/hurt feelings/anger. They are not the mark of a mature person.
- Anonymous2 decades ago
Did he send an actual invitation? Or was the phone call the invitation? If so, that means you were on his B list of invites, and if it were me, I wouldn't go.
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- d260383Lv 52 decades ago
YES.If he called you at midnight ,that means he wants you to fully participate to his wedding and reception.
