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GuERa asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 2 decades ago

PLZ some advice!?

well me and my friend met this one guy i started to like him BUT i never told my friend now my friend has the huggest crush on him what should i do???

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  • 2 decades ago
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    omg that happened to me and my best friend too! its soo hrd, isn't it? well you guys should def talk about it together. it might be hard, but it would be harder to watch her be so infatuated with this guy, and just like "stand on the sidelines." she'll prob understand. he mus be a special guy if both of you like him! yeah so def talk to her about it. don't let a guy get in the middle of your friendship for sure. good luck, hope you work everything out :)

    Source(s): experience
  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    uh...that's messy. Something like that happened between a friend and I...The difference was that we knew that the other liked the guy....Too bad neither of us got to date him...She dumped him, and he dumped me T_T

    My advice will be that you tell ur friend how u feel. After all, to dance this Tango u need 2. So there is the guy to take into consideration. U should also tell her that her friendship is more important than the guy...Then no matter who he chooses, you will still be friends....

    Good luck, hope u get the guy and ur friends don't have hard feelings ^^

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    gosh.. hmm.. take a fair competition. tell ur fren tat u r interested in him and u don't mind her having a crush on him but u wanna be fair 2 both of u. tat guy doesn't belong to anyone, u girls have the right to be true to each other and also the guy. the world isn't this small k? there r so much more to come, so juz face them calmly and rasionally. be fair to yourself and others.

  • 2 decades ago

    So she feels the same way...if she hasn't acted on it then let her know you like him too..don't just throw it in her face, but if she has already acted on it then your to late, you need to back off, for friendship sake...but if it doesn't work out for her, then that means he is available.

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  • 2 decades ago

    just ax him out and tell yo friend 2 bac off

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    that happened to me and my bff but the guy moved to peurto rico so who cares!

  • 2 decades ago

    talk 2 ur friend and see wat she has to say about it and if she kool with it then go 4 it but i she not then u both should move on

  • 2 decades ago

    tell her to back off and ask him out ok

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