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My friend's wife wants me to sleep with her, & my friend has no problem with this.what should i do?

will it be complicated in future or is it ok?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    First, you all should sit down and make sure this is really a for real situation or a joke.

    Second, make sure this is something everyone wants to do.

    Third, make it clear if its a one time deal or a recurring thing. Ask your friend what is he/she getting out of you doing this?

    Fourth, be open with each other from beginning to the end.

    Fifth, check your feelings at the door.

    Sixth, if you feel uncomfortable about the situation-DONT DO IT!

    Seventh, DON'T FORGET THE PROTECTION! LIKE CONDOMS!

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Don't do it. It will complicate things in the future. You never know how your friend might react AFTER the fact. Just be a good friend and don't sleep with your friend's wife.

  • 2 decades ago

    How close are you and your friend? If you don't want to jeopordize your friendship, I suggest you stay away from the wife.

    He may tell you it's okay, but when push comes to shove, and it happens, it may upset him. Think of it this way: Parents may KNOW their kids are sexually active, but once they catch them in the act, it's that much more traumatizing.

    Once reality hits you, perspectives change. What he may have thought was okay, may not be. Because there's even a chance he might not be cool with it, forget the wife.

    If you guys aren't close friends, then do what you want. Nobody's here to dictate your life. You have your own morals & standards. Stick by em.

  • 2 decades ago

    Yes it will be more complicated.....and no you shouldn't sleep with your wifes friend. THATS SOO WRONG! Why did you marry your wife in the first place if you are just going to go sleep around with other people?

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  • 2 decades ago

    That is totally gross. If your friend is going to let you have sex with his wife. He is not your friend at all.. He should be wondering why the hell his wife want to sleep with you. No, that will not be good for the future your going to be constantly thinking about that. I say don't do it.

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    Lv 5
    2 decades ago

    Doesn't your wife has problems with this? Anyway, yeah it would be complicated and I can assure you that it would bring you all kind of troubles, without a doubt you should stay away from such things.

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  • 2 decades ago

    He probably hates your guts so in order to murder you, then he'll have a good reason to do so if you slept with his wife.

    Seriously though if I were you and slept with my friend's wife is immoral. Where the heck is your brain??? It's an obvious question. You would commit adultery if you did slept with your "friend"s wife.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Well, is this thing normal for them, if so I say go for it. If they are those swinger type people. But if this is the first time they have done something like this don't do it bc it will cause problems, jealous, resentment, etc.

  • 2 decades ago

    Only if he is there so he cant come back and say you went behind his back.......but know this if you do their relationship stands about a 10% chance of survival because it opens up a whole lot of problems for them

  • How do you feel about it? Because it seems to me that your friends must have done this before. Some would say join in, but I would say how would you feel after it was over? Could you look them in the face? It may just ruin your friendship. I would say no, thanks and just remain friends.

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