What is the pleasure in sex, I never understood the passion for it as my boyfriend always forces it upon me?

if your boyfriend is forcing you that's Rape nothing pleasurable about being raped! Get away from him find someone that will be with you even if you don't want to have sex! That will have a fun time just being with you and talking with you and will wait till your ready! When you meet the right guy you will see the def fence! You will enjoy it as much as your partner will! And you should report your boyfriend in for rape!

IF you feel forced, there really won't be a lot of passion in the sex you are having...Tell him NO!!! After that it is RAPE...and that is not sex...that is assault and is also NOT love...and should be punished to the fullest extent of the law.

Dump his ***, Call the police, have a rape kit done at the ER, find someone who loves and RESPECTS you and your Limits.

You probably don't understand the pleasure in sex because it's being forced on you. Find someone you're attracted to and let it happen naturally, then you'll find your answer.

Well I would say you don't see the pleasure, as your BF pushes it on you. If you are not 100% willing I can see why you would not see the pleasure in it.

Dump him. Then find a guy that treats your properly. Then you will find out the pleasure of sex.

If you dont enjoy sex then your probable not attracted to who your doing it with and it also sounds like hes raping you so talk to him and leave him and if that doesnt work call the police

My answer for you, is to read up on two of my heroines (female hero), Lorena Bobbit and Eilleen Wournos. They had some good ideas of what to do with forceful men.

Convince your friend to build up more tender feelings towards sex. If necessary consult a therapist.

well i don't get it much myself but at times i can't live itout it so maybe its the person the style the atmosphere or maybe u intrested in something else wat ever it is u need to figure it out because its not ok to do things u don't want to do

well he shouldnt force you to do anything in the first place!