Are there any "alpha" men out there anymore? The kind who are unafraid to be the man in the relationship.

They exist, but you have to understand that these "alpha" men as you call them may do all the you described, but they will also say that their word is the last - will expect their woman to stay at home and mind the house etc etc - there are not too many woman out there who would like to take the other side of that kinda man.

I think a man who exhibits those traits full

time is either very insecure or a politician.

Men have been told ( I also think correctly )

that women prefer a solid guy who is compasionate

but not controling. I can grab my wife and kiss her that

way but I better be ready for a " what are you doing?"

I'm not led but we negotiate. Perhaps the

Alpha male thing ain't what its cracked up to be.

We became aware of other people's feelings. You can be manly and sensitive and caring at the same time you know. You're asking where the Macho-men are, I'll tell you, in a bar with a beer gut and talking about all the "chics" they "banged" (which are none actually).

Shut up get me a beer and wheres dinner. Like that?

So you're looking for a jerk. Well there are plenty out there , missy.

no! none around here all we have is "playas" a man who wants a lot of women and is an asshole about it

Yes they're still around.

More than likely most of them are married.

There seem to be quite a few gay ones about.

just look.

no idea!