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is it right for my sis to date a guy i like? I want us all 2 be happy!!! hes super nice 2 me and might like me
I am 12 (i no no most of u think thats to young to date, but we wouldnt actually be going out places, just calling each other and saying we are each others boyfriend/girlfriend. besides, i have never had a boyfriend and i no ppl who have in 3rd grade!!!!!) and this guy is my best friend's brother and 3 yrs. older then me. we spend a lot of time together because when i spend the night at my bff's house, she falls asleep early so her brother and I stay up late talking, watching movies, playing cards, and laughing. He is soooo sweet and raised well so he is not sex crazed ( he has never even had a girlfriend or been kissed, but he is cute) He loves little kids and he is very mature. hes nothing like the guys who are immature freaks my age. He knows I like him and said "3 yrs is a big diff but we will see". I liked him a long time B4 my sis did. He said he might like my sis..MIGHT. my sis is 14. I cleverly told mom idont wont her going to my friends house ne more.but now shes mad.All happy
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- Anonymous2 decades agoFavorite Answer
dude your too young for him hes gonna wanna date the girls that are like a year younger or maybe 2 but 3 is just too big or a difference when the girl is 12. sorry but i think that you should just let your sister have him. but if he wants to date you or her you will know so dont go after him because that'll really tick him off. he'll come to you or her when hes ready
- Anonymous5 years ago
ohkkay, soo, seeing as he is two years older than you and still pays attention to you, i'm thinkin he has something for you. And if he ignores you in front of his dad, he's probably just shy cause he doesnt want his dad to think anything ! In my opinion, i think you should text him more often and use some smileys and just come across as a good friend. Even though he's not really talkative with you right now, I think that by you taking the initiative to text him and act extra nice, he might come around. If he doesn't though , don't worry because many guys aren't very social. I have a thing with this guy, and I always have to be the conversation-starter. It's just the way he is. Also, at first i wouldnt come on too strong. For the first while, I think you should just be really friendly and just be cool. Like be yourself, and don't worry about what he thinks, because he's probably thinkin you're cute :) Then, later, once he starts to kinda warm up, why don't you confess your feelings towards him ? Even if he ends up not feeling the same, you guys will still have your great friendship ! Hope I helped ! :):)
- Anonymous2 decades ago
Thats a delimma. Im a mom and honestly, if a fifteen year old was remotely interested in my 12 year old, I would be concerned.
One thing you need to understand is, a boy at fifteen is more likely to push you into something you arent ready for. Being his friend is best for someone so young. Wait till you are at least fourteen to consider really having a bf and keep this one as a close friend and leave it that way.
I have a 12 year old daughter and have had to deal with older boys trying to push her to do things she isnt even ready for. Thankfully, she can come talk to me about things like that.
Try talking with your mom alone and see what she has to say. Explain to her whats going on.
- 2 decades ago
I DON'T THINK THAT IT IS FAIR THAT UR SIS IS LIKIN THE BOY THAT U LIKE BUT COME ON HE IS 15 AND U ARE 12 THAT BASICALLY 2 ME IS RAPE.CUZ HE IS 3YEARS OLDER THAN U.AND HE DOES HAVE A POINT CUZ U DO NOT NEED 2 BE LIKIN ANY BOYS WHILE U IN 6TH GRADE.I AM THE SAME AGE AS U AND I LIKE THIS BOY BUT HE IS THE SAME AGE.I JUST WANT 2 LIKE HIM.BASICALLY U JUST NEED 2 BE WORRYIN ABOUT GETTIN A BANGIN A** EDUCATION.U DON'T NEED 2 BE THINKIN OF BOYS OR GOIN OUT TILL U FINISH COLLEGE I MEAN U CAN LIKE BOYS BUT U SHOULD THINK ABOUT SCHOOL.CUZ U COULD GET PREGNANT EVEN THOUGH HE AIN'T SEX CRAZY HE COLD STILL TURN THAT WAY.SO GIRL U NEED 2 BE REAL CAREFUL ABOUT UR CHOICES.DON'T F*** UR LIFE UP BY MAKIN A BAD A** CHOICE.SO I SUGGEST THAT U WORRY BOUT SCHOOL.DON'T MESS UR LIFE UP CUZ U ONLY GET 1 LIFE.
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- queenmaeve172000Lv 62 decades ago
Yes. you are right You are way too young to be spending the night at someone's house. Dating at your age should be your mom dropping you off to a movie with the boy and picking you up and taking you all out for ice cream. Being alone with a boy is too tempting. Things happen like teenaged pregnancy. Even though you say he hasn't kissed anyone it all happens too quickly before you know it. Be careful be very careful.
- 2 decades ago
I believe that guy might like either your sister or you, im not really quite sure. Yuo and your sister must have to be very observant coz that guy might just be playing games with the both of you. "He might be hitting two birds at the single time" So, beware and be aware! Blood is still thicker than water so you should not allow that guy to ruin the relationship you have with your sister!
- question_ahoyLv 52 decades ago
Mom should do a whole lot more watching of both of you. You're both too young to date.
- 2 decades ago
way too long, ur not important enough for me to read the whole page, but jerry jerry jerry
Source(s): WAIT......DID U JUST SAY HE LIKED LITTLE KIDS????? WOW....CHILD MOLEST&&, NO WONDER HE GOT IN UR PANTS - Anonymous2 decades ago
have a secert affair wit him
- Anonymous2 decades ago
IF YOU GOT TO HIM FIRST,NO