help...i just had a baby and love the father but im havin an online affair?

think about your child and control yourself. if you honestly love your man, be mature and stay and be faithful. if you are through with him, let him know and move on.

alright hun u are FLIRTING with disaster. U said u love the father of your child, but your actions aren't speaking that. I don't know the extent of why u are doing this. Maybe it's because u aren't getting the attention at home from the father or there is something missing from your relationship whatever it is, you need to talk to the man u love now before u try this. I don't care how much u are attracted by the attention that you are getting from him. Hun it's just lust and nothing more. I've done it too and trust me losing what is already established just for a moment in time is far more hurtful than u getting your freak on. Hun really think this through and talk to him, if there is something missing that he CAN give to u all you have to do is talk about it and ask and if he doesn't then there u go.

You're a mother now, be responsible. Have some respect for your baby and the father. If you want to whore around, leave your babys father. How are you gonna explain this to your baby when he/she is older? Everything is found out it will never be a complete secret.

It will come back on you dear if you do that. Karma. He won't last. You may sleep with him now but you will find someone you may marry one day and then it could happen to you. Him and his wife have a bond before God and no one should help him break that bond. You shouldn't be a part of what he does that will make something bad come to him as well. Your future won't be happy forever if you continue on that path. Remember, Karma. (what goes around comes around) I wish you the best

Dangerous people live a few miles away, everyone says "it will not happen to me", but things do happen to people, especially when they think they wont happen.

Also please look around, alot of girls get left by the fathers of there children and have to bring them up all alone, do not give your babies daddy a reason to leave you high and dry. Lots of girls would like to have him too.

Fight to keep him by being pure for him and your baby.

Just a thought or two...good luck

mija dont do it. My aunt had 3 kids, happily married for 15 years, and left it all behind for a guy online that she had met. she married they guy and he ended up dying from lukiemia 2 years later. if you leave your husband now, your child may be scared from not knowing the real dad, and the guy that your chatting with may turn out to be something bad... but its your choice. and your mistakes to learn from. my only prayer is that you choose whats right.

quit being a whore and find a single man or woman. you are ruining peoples lives by sleeping with people who are not really available. one of these day you will find someone you love very much and they will do the same thing to you. what comes around goes around. good luck in your adultery life

You owe it to your child to grow up and stop flirting with other men. The days of being a sl*t are over darlin, put that thing away.

owww..please ignore this online guy..thses type of relationships will surely make your life spoil..You have a lovely family..Why you should spiol it ???your a mature woman..Other than this you are a mother..Do you know how much is the word mother precious..So live your life happy forever with your family...Wish you good luck!!

Stop NOW and let him and him only **** you cause you had a baby with him. When you are done nursing let him make love to you again except make him wear protection!!!!