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Is it right to sleep with someone ur friend slept with if u dated them 1st????

Ok here goes!! I use to date this guy like 10 yrs. ago we were best friends starting off but we ended up dating. We never had sex or anything but we did kiss. About 4 yrs. ago my female best friend and my ex had sex. I was HEATED. My female bf said that I shouldn't be mad because we never had sex. Well anyway me and the guy lost touch for like 5 yrs. I just saw him last week & he was looking GREAT!!!! We talked and he wants to hook up. I don't know what to do. I dated him first. They didn't even date they just slept together. What to do?????

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    IF U CAN DEAL WIT THE FACT DAT UR BF SLEPT WIT HIM THEN GO AHEAD BUT MAKE SURE U DONT BRING IT UP EVERY TIME YA SLEEP 2 GETHER CAUSE DAT WOULD JUST SHOW U HAVENT BEEN ABLE 2 4 GET N DAT U WILL JUST KEEP REMINDIN HIM BOUT DAT 1 TIME, DAT COULD'VE BEEN GREAT BUT U WOULDNT KNOW WOULD U .. JUST THINK BOUT HOW U WOULD HANDLE THE SITUATION .. W/E U DO GOOD LUCK

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    do not provide in. even as he jokes about drowsing with you shaggy dog tale back about provided that you adult adult males are relationship. you would even upload something like "not till the fourth date" or something. If he persist say you're pondering not having sex back till you get married. It sounds to me like he's testing you. He needs to regulate the chum status to acquaintances with advantages. If it truly is not what you opt for then shaggy dog tale back with him about relationship and getting married and having childrens and turning out to be old jointly and dieing interior of a similar breath. If that would not turn off his hormones not something will.

  • 2 decades ago

    I say go for it. A lot happened in the past, but it was all a long time ago. Put it all behind you...

  • 2 decades ago

    don't date him. it will probably make you lose your friend if she gets mad at you. try looking for someone else. there are plenty of fish in the sea.

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  • 2 decades ago

    why not you knew him first and it was a while ago that they slept together

  • 2 decades ago

    do it!!!!!!

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