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How do you save a relationship?
This is totally my fault. We are on the verge of breaking up. I love this girl more than anything in the world. She has given me 2 chances already and now she's not feeling the feeling anymore. I am trying as hard as i can to talk to her more. We are 5 hours apart and we have been for a year now....... please help
15 Answers
- 2 decades agoFavorite Answer
If you didn't try the last two times, then you are stuck. Only if she is willing, can you get a chance and you have to do all the work. Lifestyle changes, behaviour shifts anything she states and you will have to mean it.
- 2 decades ago
out of the USA time zone 5 hours apart? well , you 2 have to be working together & if you are repeating a no-no than you need to get
help with this 2nd chance or get serious. whats important
with in your means?
- 2 decades ago
You can't blame her if she felt that way and she doesn't want to give you another chance because maybe you've hurt her that much.. but then if you're really true to what you feel for her, have patience and show her you're worthy for a third chance and that you will not do again what you did the last time. Show her she can trust you again!!! gud luck!!
- silvsLv 52 decades ago
Go to her house... don't care about the distance.. show her you really care and don't want it to end... however don't beg.. that just shows how low you can get and that's a major turn off...
get flowers and some other things she likes... just spend the cash you've been saving for her on this day... hey maybe it might turn out big next time =)... hope this goes will for you...
and apologize to her again... tell her you really want to change this time... tell her you don't want to loose her... don't be ashamed to say this... you need to tell her whatever you're thinking off...
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- 2 decades ago
well, it`s not easy. relationships come to their end usually naturally, so if push the things too hard it just may not work. but if u feel that it`s still to early for an end, u should do ur best, forgive her mistakes, and make a new beginning(she should do the same). Do things she likes, go where she loves to go, etc:) good luck
- ?Lv 72 decades ago
You should ask her to be kind enough to listen to you. You should be very kind to her. Appreciate her beauty and also say very emotional love sentenses. Say that you cannot live wit hout her. Say that you are t he only hope for you in this world. I know an instance where a very richman of London whose girl friend was on bad terns with him and leaving him for good.The man asked her to sit in his car so as to give her a little ride and give her farewell feast in a hotel. She sat on the front seat. When they reached in the city, there was traffic jam. They stuck up there and during that traffic jam the man tried to console her and loved her. She mellowed and ultimately agreed to live with him.
I therefore advise you to very kindly take her in a hotel and give her very nice feast, say it is a farewell feast. You should speak with her very gently and she will give you one last chance. Be assured that you will succeed.
Source(s): No comments - 2 decades ago
as much as it will hurt you, try to give her some space. you said that she has given you 2 chances and you blew it. well, people have their limits as well. she loves you for sure but she just can't tolerate whatever she gave you the chance for.
change for good, prove not just to her but to yourself that you could be the kind of guy that could love her & never hurt her, that you are the kind of guy that is worth loving and giving chances to.
Source(s): experience - 2 decades ago
are you serious about saving your relationship? why it took you to be on a 2nd chance?!
oh no! try to do something different to convince her..
don't use the old style anymore. and make sure you do things seriously and whole-heatedly.
- Anonymous2 decades ago
if its meant to be than it will and if its not than it wont be but you can always just show up with some flowers and chocolate and bang the shet out of her and see how she feel after that
- Anonymous2 decades ago
do you know may be you need some time to make situation relaxing and try to do any thing you want after that