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liza
Lv 4

why do men think that we are in love when being simply nice ?

I have noticed that when a girl is being nice to a guy like smiling to him ,talking to him ,wanting to have a drink with him... etc .The guy thinks that you are crazy in love with him.What if you just wanted to be friends?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Actually it is the other way round. When a girl simply acts nice.. the men fall in love with them.. Also they are in doubt whether you girls like him or not..

    It is as simple as that..

    If you just wanna be friends, be yourself..no sweettalk and no killer expressions. Rest will work out fine..:)

  • 2 decades ago

    Some men are super simple, they see an attractive woman, she is nice to him, has drinks with him & wham he thinks he's in love.

    Just be yourself, never allow physical contact & be sure to tell then you just friends.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    I would expect a question like that from someone whos name is "material girl".... unreal.... maybe you just THINK he thinks your in love with him... maybe he's just being nice to feed your ego because he sees how insecure you really are....

  • 2 decades ago

    guys are used to being humiliated this is the only way that they can feel a girl is independent and does not need them... they re just weird creatures, sis!

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Tell him before you start being nice to him. Sometimes we sent wrong signals and blame ourselves.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    be your self and don't act too nice be your self girl

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