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My ex-husband has custody of my son, he has been withholding my visitation since Nov., I have a contempt case against him and am going to court May 30, my problem is I go to my son's school to see him, and my husband and father in law are acting like I should just write my son off and forget about him, I told them I will never give up on my son and will get him home again, also have told them how it hurts me when they talk like that what should I do??
my husband got my son because the judge is pro father having sons, I did nothing wrong, my exhusband beat my son util he drew blood and he still got him.
His dad even denied being his father for the first few years of his life. I am a good mom, I do everything in my power to provide everything they need.
the judge gave me my daughter and the court papers say I am fit to have her.I was told before going to court there was a chance of it happening be i never dreamed a judge would seperate siblings. I had another child after my divorce for him before i married my current husband. So I have my oldest and my youngest child.My son is what is missing. The judge knew about my ex husbands abuse and still took my son from me.
6 Answers
- 2 decades agoFavorite Answer
Continue to take his a** to court and DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!!! Conversations, interactions, everything! Whatever will show the courts what an a**hole him and his dad are will help you out. Continue to make a GOOD FAITH EFFORT (google the term to define) to see your son. Best of luck! Every child needs their mother
- 2 decades ago
Go to court and keep your calm. Make sure you are dressed appropriately for court. Never over talk the Judge and do not argue with your husband no matter what he says to piss you off wait until it is your turn to speak while in the court room. The more you talk and argue in a court room the more your hurting yourself. Only speak when spoken to by the Judge. Be the bigger person even though it may hurt like hell. I wish you luck. Keep your head up.
- littleluvkittyLv 62 decades ago
You are doing the right thing. You are trying to get him back. If your husband can not Handel it than maybe you should write him(your husband) off. Tell him that he can not make you choose between him and your son. Tell him that he will not win. Also stay strong everything will work out. Just remember what you are fighting for. Good luck, I will send a prayer your way.
- Anonymous2 decades ago
Hang in till you get to court.
Family law is very complicated - i am sure that all the facts will emerge and a more equal decision will be coming,
Make sure that at the hearing you have you case laid out and in order.
The courts are more receptive now and there is more equality.
Good luck.
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- 2 decades ago
how did they get custody? ask a lwayer for family mediation to sit with your son and find out how he feels about seeing you..dont get upset with the outcome because he maybe brainwashed against you..do not give up your parental rights..stop fighting and go with what the court says..demand that you get to see your son on regular basis without confrontations
- 2 decades ago
don't tell them how u feel--thts on;y givin them somethin to hold against u--tell ur son how u want to see him--but don't break the boys heart if u can't make that promise--be truthful to ur son --and y does he have the son in the first place? becus u ****** up and its up to u to get him back--get stable and stop enterin his life if its only goin to b brief its hurtin him 2 --think about him rather then how u miss him--how do u think its makin him feel ? only seein u @school? xactly--think b4 u act,speak,etc.etc. ya feel me?
