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How do you meet an atractive woman when you are a single father with two children?

Age: 26 Occupation Air Force Children are 6 and 4 and my life revolves around them trying to debate whether or not to stay in the airforce because I hate being away from them

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  • 2 decades ago
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    meeting an attractive lady wouldnt be hard when you have to cutie kids in hand not that you would use them in that manner,women love kids especially other peoples kids,dont worry about finding a woman a woman will find you,being away from your kids can be hard but thats ok dont be sad because your providing alife for them they wont hold that against you ,when your with your kids take them out to parks outings beach and thats where you will find the lady you should be with,she will come to you you wont have to look for her,then again the internet might be a starting point there are lots of spunky women out there who are looking for a guy like you

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    My husband was a divorced father-of-two when we met at our church. I'm 25 and he's 39. Our advice is - quit looking and just let things happen. We both had sworn we would never date again because we were tired of games and of being hurt. We both made this vow about four months before we met. Then, a mutual friend introduced us out of the blue and the rest is history.

    As for staying in the air force.... I am firm believer in following your heart, and that family always comes first.

    Best of luck.

  • 2 decades ago

    First of all it shouldn't be hard at all for you to meet a nice woman, but remember be honest with her and let her know about your occupation and your children and for that she will respect you I already respect for stepping up to the plate and being a single working father of your two kids. Good Luck and Keep up the good work!

  • 2 decades ago

    So which is you question?

    I can tell you where not to meet a woman that would def. be a bar. I would imagine that their are single mothers that you could probaly meet at school functions... at least then you would know they have the same interests.

    as far as the air force goes... only you can make that decision. you def. won't find that answer here. you are going to have to look inside yourself and decide if your job is worth the sacrifice of not seeing your children.

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  • if you dont have a wife,or divorcing i thought in alot of states a male or female couldnt have custody of children and be on active duty,due to the war call possibility.

    frankly you may be better of staying in as far as job wise goes there will always be money,and housing and help if that means anything.

    i was divorced with two childern and one handicapped,i got tired of females giving choices you need to give up the kids or me, i really didnt miss them any after that,there will always be females Around

  • 2 decades ago

    the easiest way to meet a woman in this kind of position would be to send the kids away or get a baby-sitter and go out to a club or something. socilize with some of the woman there and if you get lucky by meeting one who has some interest in you ask her if she would go on a date with you some other time.

  • 2 decades ago

    you gonna need thatg job to support them. but dont let the reason you find a nice lady be the real you loose her. find someone date them for a lil while but make sure you let her know you have kids after you get to know her invite her out with you and your kids then you guys spend some time together to see if it fits. whatever you do dont tell her you are looking for a mother for your kids let that be her decision. she has to feel comfortable in the position. but remember whatever you do to get her you will have to do to keep her. dont put her in that situation once you get her and leave her with your kids all the time you will have to spend time with her too. good luck...

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Single parent meetings!

  • mutt
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    Go to the supermarket, ask one who you are interested her opinion, or advice on whether a certain type of fruit is ripe, or what would she suggest you could serve with a roast, pork chops, etc.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    try harmony.com or perhaps a church group that is hard... but im sure if you search some type of dating site you are bound to find someone that is looking... I wish you luck... but make sure that person is someone that you can trust around your children... and if you children dont like them listen to them!!!

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