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Am I a reborn VIRGIN after five months?

I have been seperated for five months now and I can't bring myself to date because I would feel to guilty. How do people go this long without sex.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    No, you learn to please yourself for awhile or pick up a good hobby like horse back riding.

  • 2 decades ago

    No. Once you give your virginity away, you will never have it again. No matter how long you go without sex, your body has already been through the process, and so has your mind. You will never forget it, and it will always stay with you.

    And people go this long without sex all the time. And when you start talking about not being able to live without sex like that...that's starting to sound like you're addicted or something. Don't talk like that. Sex is something reserved for THE ONE YOU LOVE, and not just because you can't stand going for a certain amount of time without having the experience. You should have the experience because you love someone. Not because it FEELS good, necessarily.

    My suggestion? Don't go looking around for a one-night stand. Look for a future partner that you might be able to picture spending the rest of your life with. I know that may seem hard, and an arduously long process to look a head to...but it needs to happen. You shouldn't take sex lightly. It's a part of yourself that is actually sacred, and it is a precious gift that you should give only to the one you love. Try to think of it that way, and I assure you you will start thinking better and making better choices in your life.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    No. Ur not a reborn virgin, because just by ur response, u want to have guilt free sex, so when u stop feeling guilty, and ur ready to date, it's my feeling that sex will be part of the package. Reborn virgins are ones that don't have sex even if they want to. Because that takes true courage and control. NOT doing something when u REALLY WANT TO. Ur just stopping because u want to. Going w/o it for five months is easy. Try being with someone for a really long time, but choosing not to go at it, because she wants to remain a virgin 'til marriage, and staying with her anyway 'cause u love her, and by doing so, u'll wait 'til she's ready for matrimony!

    Source(s): Experience
  • 2 decades ago

    Well I'm not really sure how you can just become a virgin again, but with that aside. Normal people don't go without having sex because it is a natural animalistic action. So i would just say find the queerest guy you can find who has not sex drive, or just start having sex again.

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Virginity does NOT work that way. You're not ready to date. That's all.

  • 2 decades ago

    Denial is not just a river in Egypt...

    Just kidding.

    You will never be a virgin again.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    To date means sex?... I doubt it, you don't need to **** to survive, unless you are a rabbit! And by the way virginty won't come back!

  • 2 decades ago

    lol, i cant even go 1 month, good for you. haha feel guilty... dont worry bud, im sure you will find someone. but i dunno bout that reborn a virgin thing

  • 2 decades ago

    ok your 1 person who will do anything for sex.i have never had sex

  • 2 decades ago

    no ur ot a reborn nirgin ur just desperate ugh!!!

  • 2 decades ago

    your staight up not a virgin for life after your fist fu*k

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