What do you do when you mate runs to their exes everytime you have a problem?

I would tell him that he is no longer with them, and any problems you guys have, stays between the two of you. He needs to stay away from them. If he needs to talk to someone, he can talk to you, and that is that. No way would I bend on that. How do you know he isn't still sleeping with any of them? I don't trust a man that has to run to another woman. If he insists on still going to them, then tell him if that's where he feels the need to run to, then he should stay there.

I think it's cheating too. If they're his ex's, that means he should not be seeing them anymore. To answer your first question, I would break up with him. If you're having arguementss all the time, that doesn't sound like a good relationship. Secondly, if he loves how his ex's listen so much, maybe he should get back with them. So forget him, girl.

I was like that and i think went to my ex b/c they listen and they never tried anything w/ me but people are different don't call it cheatin' b/c exes always form a good relationship after the break up sometimes people become really good friends w/ their exes

Tell him he is being a baby and he needs to correct his habit or he'll be dumped. Exes are exes for a reason and even him telling you "They listen" it is still cheating. Let him know that he and his exes had "feelings" once and by him returning to them for comfort it is at the very least "emotionally cheating" on you. If he doesn't change tell him you will dump him and he can't come to you later for comfort....

I say the next time he runs to his ex, lock the door. If they are such good listeners maybe they'll listen while he tells them he was just dumped. Move on..you deserve better.

that don't make sense at all, if he talking **** about his ex why would he run to her something is not right I think he is messing around cause if u and him have a problem he should talk to you and noone else that's the way u build a relationship u have to communicate cause no relationship is perfect.

He sounds like he's emotionally insecure, and they are not helping by letting him. If it bothers you that much, maybe you should put your foot down and tell him that it's not acceptable for him to do that. And the next time will be the last time. Then move on.

of cuz he cheating, if u cant talk 2 u about ur problems, he cheatin by talkin 2 some1 else especially his exes.

The next time he goes running to his "ex's",tell him to stay there.

Its extremly disrespecful and shall continue unless you do something different. Like think of leaving his cheating assss.