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Why do men think they always have to be in control of every situation?

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    because we're men and dont really have the full control of our own minds at the best of times, its childish I know but hey, like mny grandfather use to say "women grow up, men just get older"

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    I really don't think this is true at all. Seems a bit stereotypical to me. In fact while we are on the subject of stereotypes, from what I've seen at my school and in life, it's the female race that thinks they need to be in control. Girls that I've seen just love to control guys like they are property and tell them what to do all the time. And if they don't do what they say they get all pissed off. Being a female myself, I think is really stupid and immature, but that's because I have a very go with the flow attitude. Now depending on the situation, guys can be controlling as well. The characteristic of "control freak" is not just designated to one gender, because it all just depends on the individual's personality. Most people like to have their way, male or female. Sometimes men or women feel that they need to take control of situations because they don't think the other will or won't do as good of job or make the right decision. Or it could just be that they have a dominating personality, in which case that's their own problem and they need to be told to cool it a bit. Either way, people need to learn compromise with others and stop thinking that their own opinion is the only one that matters.

  • 2 decades ago

    Why do women think they always have to be in control of every situation? lol It's not true for either gender. It depends on the individual person. Not all men are like that as not all women are like that.

  • 2 decades ago

    The Y chromosome is shrinking, and in 125,000 years, there won't be any y chromosomes left in males. The x chromosome is growing, and is a female genetic chromosome. The insecurity can be frightening, when you know you may be going extinct and don't know why. This puts one out of control, so one has to control tighter to stay in control. Read Adam's Curse by Bryan Sykes (London), the geneticist on his study of the diminishing male Y chromosome and what it will be like in 125,000 years. No wonder men want to be in control in the present. Isn't it frightful as we British ancestried say?

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  • 2 decades ago

    I used to wonder that now i know its just a dumb*ss man thing they always think that they are all that they are better than women and they are stronger more supieor. Bull*hit huh!! Two years ago I dedicaded alot of my time as

    I still do to minipilate all men who think there better than women!! Try showing a guy a chyna by the way chyna is a really super strong girl wrestler!!!

    Source(s): That always works for me!!
  • 2 decades ago

    Men like to be in control because its part of our instinctual need. I think testosterone has something to do with it. Historicaly men needed to defend the family and tribe. Having the strength of a man does warrant the need to control (it).

  • 2 decades ago

    You've got it backward. Women always to control every situation (in a relationship).

  • 2 decades ago

    Why do you want to be in control? Men are designed to be the head of the household, the provider, the leader. That is their role in nature. You can't change nature because you want to be the one in control.

    Source(s): It appears you are getting two different answers to one question. I did not precieve this question as asking about "controlling as in a man that is insecure and wants to control your every move, but as in being a man and taking leadership." No one wants to be "controlled" by another person. That is manipulation. You stated "control of every situation."
  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Because their men, they always have to be in control and always be wright and always be better than woman!

    Source(s): But not all men are that way
  • 2 decades ago

    Sorry to hear you have not met a real man yet. Now go get me a beer and dont ever look me in the eye again.

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