well i just recently gone through a break up but im so attached to this boy that i cant get over him wat 2 do?

i feel the same way...im really sorry because i know exactly how youre feeling. my boyfriend of almost 9 month and i broke up last week and i still have the strongest feelings for him and its been hurting so much. ive just been trying to stay as busy as i can to help keep it off my mind, hang out with friends and just try your best not to think about it even if it is hard. im sorry.

Sounds like time will heal it....but I will tell you one thing my mom told me before when I was heart broken...and it is really true.

Men are like dogs (okay...read on)

You have a nice dog and love him dearly.

You think to yourself "Self, I really like this dog. I would never be able to live without him!"

One day your dogs suffers the terrible fate of being hit my a garbage truck. He dies.

You are really sad for a few weeks. You think life will never go on!

Then you go by the pet shop and see a cute little fluffy puppy in the window--and you fall in love at first sight!

You bring the puppy home and are as happy as can be.

Then come to find out--you forget about that old dog because the new one is cuter anyway!

This is always a tough question and one you rarely want to hear the answer. I know I just went through a similar situation. You have to trust that if he is not interested, then you will be much happier if you don't waste your time on him. You should focus your energies somewhere else and time will heal the hurt you are feeling. You'll find someone else that will ease that transition. Just believe.

I can understand your problem very well as i am goin thru this.But do not give up and remeber breakup is easy but to find a nice guy who can take your heart back is very difficult.I am getting engage to this guy in july and we know each other since 5 years but as we both stay in diff cities now i argue with him a lot as he do not respond me with same care and love as he use to do when we were in college together..may be we both are more mature now and working professionals..

So my only advice is do not give up and try putting your efforts for 1 more time..Talk to the guy straight away.

like all women do keep that guy as close friend ....dont think of him as your boyfriend....but think of him as a problem solver ...since u are so attached to him ....he could be your best pal ....you could talk to him about what guys look in a girl and probably find a best man for you as u might percieve it..

Just cut yourself off from him. Remind yourself that you will live without him. I know it's hard to say goodbye to someone special, but you CAN move on. It just takes patience, strength, and supportive friends.

well, i went trough the same thing recently.. so i would just say ask him before its to late.. the worst thing that could happen is you are right... but at least you know... don't be afraid to ask any question....don't be scared of the truth no matter what that is..(phill)

just try to get over him by doing different things to calm your stress

Ask him. tell him to be real with you. like radio shack - youve got questions, he should have answers. what ever happened to people having good old "COMMON SENSE!!!"

try to get it into your head that you are over him. you see him and keep saying it in your head that you don't like him. trust me. it helped me, but that is another story.