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Should I call him? (more complex than that)?
I've been friends with one guy for almost two years, and I've always REALLY liked him but never told him this. Last January, He had a party while his mom was gone and we both got drunk and well...we ended up pretty close but then I got pretty sick and thats the only reason his mom found out about the party in her house. She sent him back to his dad's house full time where he hates it. I only talked to him a few times after that, because an ex-girlfriend of his got between and I felt so bad about the whole thing I didn't think I deserved him. I thought I got over it. I'm now in a new relationship, but all the old thoughts and feelings for the other guy are coming back, and I want to know if meybe I should call him and just tell him I miss him and if he might want to hang out. I'm really bugged about this, and confused why I can't get over him once and for all. Any advice, personal experiances in the like would help greatly...thanks =D
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- 2 decades agoFavorite Answer
I would say call him. Dont get all into the whole thing about missing him and everything because for some guys that might seem clingy or desparate. But there are people that we gravitate towards for inexplicable reasons. You only ever had a taste of what things might be like. Probably for your sanity you need to see if things could be there. There is this one girl that I never made anything happen with and I was always too lame to just make it clear that I liked her. One day I finally did and it didnt work out. But bottom line, at least I knew and I dont have to wonder "what if" anymore.
- 2 decades ago
I think it not just feelings involved but you are in love. Maybe you should call him and find out what he thinks. He might have the same feeling for you although circumstances may prevent him from doing it. Like for instance you have a friend and he also has a friend. So call him up and see if he is willing to go out with you and talk about what you are going through.
- 2 decades ago
I would let it go, it would be best for everyone. If you make that call, you, him, his girlfriend and your boyfriend will all be affected.