What a girl to do?

It seems he may be interested in rekindling some of that love the two of you may have initially shared. Do you still love him? Are you attracted to him? Are the feelings you first had still present? If the answer to each of these questions is yes, then accept his attempts to reach out to you and get involved. However, if you're no longer interested, try expressing this to him calmly and concientiously should his behavior become more intense. He should probably get the hint then.

Take care :)

Usually that means either he wants to get back together, or if he's a pig like my ex, he probably wants something from you. It's your call, because you know what kind of guy he is. These are just the two possibilities.

Like my ex, once a cheater, always a cheater, since we broke up (by the way I don't ever wish to get back with him in any way, shape, or form) he's been trying to convince me that he cares about me more than he's cared about anyone. Not that I believe him, even the tiniest bit, but meanwhile, I find out that he's out messing around with different people. Yet when I tell him I'm not interested in even being just friends with him because he's a liar and never is honest with me, he says ask him anything. So I do, and of course he denies that he has been with anyone more than just hanging out. So what he wants from me, I have no idea, seeing how I've already told him I want nothing to do with him, and obviously he can't handle a real relationship anyway. He's a drifter!

It would seem as though your ex is attempting to tell you that he would like to have you back in his life.

The best thing for you to do, for both of you, is to just discuss it openly and honestly. Tell him what your feelings are. You have to be ready to accept what his terms are just as he has to be ready to accept what your terms are.

Talking about it, will enable both of you to see both sides of the situation. When you hide your feelings in any relationship, you are putting a death sentence on it, because the other person has no way of knowing, other than your words and actions, what you are feeling, thereby the other person has no idea what to do.

i think he trying to get back with you... but do you feel the same way? and if so why did you break up the first time? that will be something to work on and make sure you don't move too fast in this relationship.. it could turn out not like you'd hope if you move too fast

Yes, I think he wants you back. he is trying to make you love him again. But be careful! If you broke up once that was because there was something wrong with it, so please watch out so that you don't get hurt going into the same relationship twice.

Anyway, try to think it well before you decide because he is definitely asking you to get back to him.

Good luck honey!

It would have helped to know why you broke up. Not knowing why you broke up all I can say is your guys are exs for a reason. I feel when its over you should move on.

What was the reason for the break up in the first place... was it because he cheated on you or you just grew a part? If its the latter then I say why not give it a go... but if he cheated on you then I say its time to move on

sounds like he wants you back. Just don't forget why you broke up in the first place. Was he in a relationship?did it not work out, what happened?

There are two options here:

1. He still loves you and wants to go out with you again.

2. He doesn't want to go out with you but he doesn't want another guy to be your boyfriend, it's a bit like he thinks he 'owns' you but he really cares for you and is confusing brotherly love with romance.

Wants you back big style!! You need to decide if that's what you want. If yes then talk to him about it and go from there. If not then you need to be harsh and ask/tell him to back off and let you move on.